Friday, May 30, 2014

How to Meditate - Moksha in the form of Meditation

"Be Busy but Stay Relaxed"

With the hectic pace and demands of modern life, many people feel stressed and over-worked. It often feels like there is just not enough time in the day to get everything done. Our stress and tiredness make us unhappy, impatient and frustrated. It can even affect our health. We are often so busy we feel there is no time to stop and meditate! But meditation actually gives you more time by making your mind calmer and more focused. A simple ten or fifteen minute breathing meditation as explained below can help you to overcome your stress and find some inner peace and balance.

Meditation can also help us to understand our own mind. We can learn how to transform our mind from negative to positive, from disturbed to peaceful, from unhappy to happy. Overcoming negative minds and cultivating constructive thoughts is the purpose of the transforming meditations found in the Moksha Meditation traditions. This is a profound spiritual practice you can enjoy throughout the day, not just while seated in meditation.

On this blog you can learn the basics of Moksha meditation. A few blogs are mentioned that will help you to deepen your understanding if you wish to explore further. Anyone can benefit from the meditations given here, Spiritual or not. We hope that you find this blog useful and that you learn to enjoy the inner peace that comes from meditation.


Level 1 - Breathing Technique:

Generally, the purpose of breathing meditation is to calm the mind and develop inner peace. We can use breathing meditations alone or as a preliminary practice to reduce our distractions before engaging in Moksha Meditation

A Simple Breathing Meditation Techniques - 1st stage to practise Meditation

The first stage of meditation is to stop distractions and make our mind clearer and more lucid. This can be accomplished by practising a simple breathing meditation. We choose a quiet place to meditate and sit in a comfortable position. We can sit in the traditional cross-legged posture or in any other position that is comfortable. If we wish, we can sit in a chair.

"The first stage of meditation is to stop distractions and make our mind clearer and more lucid."

If you are at home and have a choice of solitude:

  • Sit with your eyes partially closed and turn your attention to your breathing. 
  • Breathe naturally, preferably through the nostrils, without attempting to control your breath
  • Try to become aware of the sensation of the breath as it enters and leaves the nostrils. This sensation is our object of meditation. 
  • Try to concentrate and try to exclude everything else.
If you don't have a choice of solitude or have an extremely busy schedule:
  • Try concentrating on your breath while you are working.
  • Concentrate only for 4 breaths and feel the inner peace. 
  • Do this every 2 hour or in other words, every other in regular intervals
  • You may keep doing this in shorter intervals as you continue working.

At first, your mind will be very busy, and you might even feel that the meditation is making your mind busier; but in reality we are just becoming more aware of how busy our mind actually is. There will be a great temptation to follow the different thoughts as they arise, but one should resist this and remain focused single-pointedly on the sensation of the breath. Afterall, its just 4 breaths! If you discover that the mind has wandered and is following your thoughts, you should immediately return it to the breath. This should be repeated as often as you can so that your mind settles down.


Level 2 - Cleansing the Mind: (in only 1 step)

Now that your mind has trained to settle down or rather is training to settle down, this would be the right time to cleanse your mind.. Emotions do come from heart but negative emotions come from ones mind.. Think about it..! Its the mind that actively participates to help you think. You think the most when you are going through negative emotions..

How to cleanse your mind in 1 step?

While you concentrate on those 4 breaths, breath out all the thoughts. While you do this, imagine your mind to be an empty box. Just say to your mind "Its empty! No positive, No negative...Its Empty"


Level 3 - Adding Positive Emotion:

With the hectic lifestyle we try to simplify things we do in our daily routine and adding positive thoughts and emotions to your empty mind helps recharge your overall energy reserve of your body. Everyone's interpretation of positive thought is different, like everyone's interpretation to Happiness (as discussed in previous blog .However, the end result is the same - 'Happiness'.  

Step 1:

Instead of making great effort of thinking positive, just add a pinch of happiness to the mind that you have you just cleared of all thoughts.

Step 2:

Smile - A subtle smile is capable of spreading a pinch of happiness across your body.

Practise this over and over again until this emotion becomes a part you without making an effort.

Benefits of Moksha Meditation:


  • Moksha Meditation can be practised even while you work. 
  • You dont need to be in a closed dark room to practise Moksha Meditation.
  • It teaches you to face your life the way it is but experience inner peace at all times.
  • One's distracting thoughts will subside and one will experience a sense of inner peace and relaxation.
  • Mind learns to sense the reality in difficult situations.
  • Difficult situations will become easier to deal with.
  • Clarity in thoughts helps find answers to unresolved issues.
  • One's mind will feel lucid and spacious thus feeling refreshed and recharged.
  • You will naturally feel warm and well disposed to others and your relation ship with others will gradually improve. 
"A Busy Life makes Meditation Harder, but Meditation makes a Busy Life Easier"

Read here Part 1 and Part 2 on Moksha Meditation

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Moksha Meditation (Part 2) - "Don't sit there Meditating" is my new Mantra

I am overwhelmed by the number of response I received to my question in my last post.. Before I go ahead, I would like to thank all those who mailed me with your lovely answers.. Also you mails on how interesting this topic is and how curious you are has encouraged me to continue this blog as Part 2 of Moksha Meditation..

In my previous blog I had mentioned you need not take that 15 mins to sit aside and meditate. By saying this, I am not criticizing other styles of meditations... But this is my small effort of introducing this new technique of meditation I have been trying myself and has worked wonders!

What is Happiness? 
Here are some of the answers I received..

  • Happiness is when I buy a car
  • Happiness is feeling happy
  • Happiness is when I buy my dream house
  • Happiness is having a baby
  • Happiness is seeing that smile in my childs face
  • Happiness is achieving my ambition
  • Happiness is having a cup of masala chai (indian tea) with your best friend
  • Happiness is when I get an auto as soon as I walk down the street in a hot summer
  • Happiness is a sweet good night kiss.....and so on..... 
Some people measure happiness by materialistic things where as some measure it with non- materialistic things.. 
The problem here is, if we didn't get these things (like things listed above), we wont feel happy.. So here comes a few more questions to ask yourselves...
Do you really need something in your lives to be happy?
If yes, is Happiness really measurable? 
Can you actually achieve happiness? 

Happiness is merely a state of no unhappiness

Moksha Meditation is a state of mind... it is the attitude towards life...
Moksha meditation is a state of constant happiness..

Lets reiterate the statement Happiness is merely a state of no unhappiness.. Is this statement equivalent to "Happiness is merely no sadness"? ??

No!

Like no light in this world means darkness..
No God means Evil..
No intelligence means being dumb...
Darkness, Evil or being dumb are a few examples of negativity which can only exists in the absence of a positivity, likewise Sadness exists only where there is no happiness..

In reality, there is no definition for sadness..

Hmm... you might be thinking this is bizarre!

Before I go any further... understanding this concept of happiness is extremely important...

Hence lets do a small exercise... 

Step 1: Wherever you, (lying, sitting, travelling) just breath in twice deeply
Step 2: Now, empty your mind of all thoughts and emotions, as if your brain is an empty box.
            No thoughts..... No anger.... No irritability.... No love... No lust... Nothing....
Your brain is just an empty space now...

Step 3: Pick a pinch of the Happiness and imagine it to sink into your empty box called brain..

Step 4: As you do this, just give yourself a smile! Trust me you deserve it.. :)

Thats All!!

Try maintaining this throughout your day... A conscious effort every now and then especially of step 2 and 3 ever now an then while doing your usual activities will make a tremendous difference to your daily lifestyle...

I will come back to talk about this and answer the curious cats.. But make sure you try these steps of Moksha Meditation a couple of times..

A Humble Warning: We are used to being in a constant state of stress or constant state of thoughts (good or bad).. Hence emptying your mind of everything might take a little while.. 
Tip: Understanding the concept of Happiness can make practice of Moksha Meditation a lot easier!
 Remember: Moksha Meditation is not a destination, it is a way of Life...
Feel free to write your opinion or experience on madhutanjorkar@gmail.com

Friday, May 16, 2014

Moksha Meditation - A new way of living your life..

I researched on a couple of questions on meditation and found this...
What is Meditation: 
45% said sitting / lying down on a quiet room
50% said trying to concentrate in 1 object / stay calm
100% said not talking to anyone while you meditate

How often do you meditate? 
5% said once a week or more often
8% said once a month
92% said can't meditate due to busy schedule
70% said don't know how to meditate/not my cup of tea (they also agreed on point 3)

And if you are reading this and thinking you fit into most of these answers.. especially the majority then here is something for you...

In Moksha Meditation you don't have to...

  • sit aside in a closed room
  • close your eyes
  • not talk to anyone while you meditate
  • take time of your routine work

It is an art of being in a state happiness at all times.. It is a state of relaxation... a state of consciousness..

Let me start with some basics..
Moksha is a sanskrit word meaning liberation. Spiritually Moksha means freedom from samsara, the cycle of death and rebirth. Whereas psychologically means freedom/ self realisation.

Meditation is a practice in which an individual trains the mind to induce mode of consciousness which helps to relax, focus and quiet your mind..

Do you think you could unit the two? -Moksha and Meditation!
One often would disagree as Moksha is usually attained after one's death. But Moksha meditation is a form of meditation which allows you to enjoy the peace in you state of complete consciousness while you are doing you daily day to day activities like talking, working, dealing with issues at work or fights etc..


Now... Is this practically possible? Can you meditate while sitting in the most important business meeting!
Can you meditate while you are working hard to meet your deadlines?
Can you meditate while you are running late?

Before I go any further, I would like to ask a question to my readers...

What is Happiness and How do you measure it? 
feel free to comment below or mail me your views to madhutanjorkar@gmail.com